<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Sixteenth: Letters From Friends]]></title><description><![CDATA[Reflections, revelations, and quiet provocations — written by friends of The Sixteenth. 
These letters span the personal and the cultural, touching on identity, taste, work, reinvention, beauty, and what we’re all trying to make sense of. Some are polished. Some are messy. All are intentional.
Sometimes, the clearest insight comes in the form of a note passed between friends.]]></description><link>https://sixteenth.substack.com/s/letters-from-friends</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!R0Z9!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4d3f89e3-e105-4181-88da-649a7088d78d_640x640.png</url><title>The Sixteenth: Letters From Friends</title><link>https://sixteenth.substack.com/s/letters-from-friends</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 00:05:40 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://sixteenth.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Megan Wiess]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[sixteenth@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[sixteenth@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[The Sixteenth]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[The Sixteenth]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[sixteenth@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[sixteenth@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[The Sixteenth]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Style, After All]]></title><description><![CDATA[How personal style is not the starting point of selfhood, but its earned reflection.]]></description><link>https://sixteenth.substack.com/p/style-after-all</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://sixteenth.substack.com/p/style-after-all</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah Godfrey]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2025 11:36:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/4dc84c4f-ebb4-487b-9b5d-5c6325bf85cd_840x600.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a 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Read more of her writing on her substack: <em>are you privy?</em></p><p>She can also be found at TikTok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@smactok4?lang=en"> @smactok4</a> | Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/s.godfreyfecit/">@s.godfreyfecit</a></p><div><hr></div><p>A few weeks ago I opened TikTok and aimlessly swiped my screen until I landed on a video of a teenage girl getting ready for a day of high school. My finger froze. My before-school routine in the late aughts included splashing my face with water and throwing on a bit of drugstore mascara. Whenever I see a seventeen year old at the ready at her beauty station, I strap in&#8212;things are about to get serious. As she primped and patted herself she went on a diatribe about personal style and the surfeit of amateur stylists giving mediocre advice on social media. The gist of her argument: <em>it&#8217;s not that serious</em>, the personal style conversation is overblown, and if you want to wear a white tank top, jeans, and Adidas Sambas, go for it. The style police can&#8217;t arrest you for it. While I don&#8217;t subscribe to the we-live-on-a-floating-rock-it&#8217;s-not-that-deep mentality, I got her point.</p>
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